We are one well-connected town! Apparently gone are the days of one networking event a week. This past week alone, we biz-e-chicks attended not one, not two, but three of them! The first was on Tuesday, After Five Networking, sponsored by Tampa Bay CEO magazine. (How fun is it that we women entrepreneurs are CEOs?!) The next was on Thursday afternoon – coolTECH, put on by TBTF (Tampa Bay Technology Forum), where we saw not just how well-connected this town is on a personal level, but on a technological plain, as well. Then, immediately after coolTECH, we were off to Conversations & Cocktails, presented by the Ekhos. This month’s speaker talked about girls getaways and the importance of making time for friends … which we’ve been neglecting because we’re too busy networking!
The events were fantastic; we were able to make some great contacts for both biz-e-chicks and our businesses. And, next week is bringing on more meetings and events, including the best one of all – biz-e-chicks.
Really, though, as much as we love going to these events, sometimes it’s hard to pull ourselves away from actual paying projects to attend these meetings where we may or may not meet a potential client. We’ve talked about this at biz-e meetings in the past, i.e., how to figure out which networking groups are worth the time and investment. Unfortunately – and, sadly, typically – we’ve obviously forgotten the suggestions on how to decide which ones to attend, and then end up being overscheduled and exhausted by the end of the week.
We know many of you are just as biz-e with networking because we see you at these events. How about the After Five event, by the way, where every place we looked we saw a fellow chick? How are you deciding which events to attend and which ones to leave out of your biz-e summer schedule? Until we get some good suggestions, we’ll see you soon … at least once or twice this coming week!
Motivation? I’ve been looking for you.
Motivation. Why is it so difficult to find some days? Today, for example, I don’t have anything planned; I’ve actually scheduled today as a biz-e-chicks day. I guess that means I do have something planned, if you want to be picky about it. You biz-e-chicks know what I mean, though. A day when you don’t have on your calendar that you need to make 10 phone calls, send three invoices and respond to a folder full of e-mails is a day that is “unplanned.” But, still, motivation seems to be out of reach.
To recap: plenty to do, plenty of time, zero motivation. I’ve tried my sit-down-at-the- computer-and-just-start-typing trick which typically solves the problem. Unfortunately, this time the only things being typed were “craigslist.org,” “ebay.com,” and “seejanework.com.” So, what’s next? It’s time to resort to drastic measures and choose a weapon from my motivation arsenal.
Weapon 1 – Make a list. I don’t know about you, but if I have a note in front of me that breaks down what I need to do into smaller, manageable tasks, things don’t seem so difficult. So, I am now putting small bullet points below my generic “Work on biz-e-chicks” entry in my calendar. One reads, “Choose blog topics.” Another reads, “Write three blog entries by 6 p.m.” Great! I’m feeling better already.
Weapon 2 – Start working on something small. Some people may disagree and say that this is just a way to procrastinate doing the most important things. However, I have some small items on my list that really need to be accomplished today, like “Call Summer and see if she has any blog topics she wants me to write about,” and “Write e-mails to three chicks to see if they would like to be guest bloggers.” These things will only take me about five minutes to do, true. But, once I finish them I’ll have that warm, fuzzy feeling of accomplishment. Even better, the momentum that I’m building up from completing the tiny tasks will carry me through the rest of the items on my list.
Weapon 3 – Focus, girl, focus! By now I’m on a roll and will implement the 50-minute focus technique that I read about recently. Basically, you take a 50-minute block of time and pick one thing – ONE THING – to stay focused on; work on that thing only. It sounds easy, but it’s actually more difficult than you might think.
And, that’s it! By now, with my task list written down, a few small things completed and a major thing in progress, I’m out of the no-motivation zone. My three techniques may not work for everyone, but they are steps in the right direction. And, at least now you have some other weapons in your arsenal to use when hunting down motivation that’s gone MIA.